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I’m currently the only Western female student here, so I get quite some attention, even from other foreign students.But Japanese guys are still a big mystery to me’, she writes.There was also one page with a drawing of his face. Why doesn’t she understand that I’m not interested?The book ended with telling him that I was still willing to date him even though he turned me down with this obvious excuse of working in the same team. I want her to stop doing embarrassing things in front of people but I don’t know how. Hopefully it will stop as time goes by.’ She was giving emotional gifts he couldn’t reciprocate, and that put him under a lot of pressure and made him uneasy.It is commonly believed that dating in Japan is easy for non-Asian (particularly white) men and hard for women.I came across a blog post by zoomingjapn, a German girl living in Japan, writing about dating in Japan as a foreigner. She writes, ‘It is comparably easy for a western foreign man to find a Japanese woman or to have a nice relationship here in Japan’, but ‘it is extremely tough to find a date as a foreign woman here in Japan.’ Her story is interesting in itself but the most interesting part of the article is the huge number of comments gets – 162 comments (or about 30,000 words! A lot of people who commented actually disagree with her.I’m not saying he should adapt himself completely; it’s ultimately his choice.He might just not be compatible with the majority of Japanese girls.
I’m horribly bad at drawing but I put lots of effort and I got honest praise from the people around me whom I showed the book.
A guy says that it’s very hard for him to have good relationships with Japanese women.
‘My biggest problem is that most girls my age (~25) are very childish’, he points out.
Many people provided counter-examples in the comments.
My personal experience also tells me that dating in Japan is completely feasible and a lot of my friends seem to be doing OK with dating here.
In particular, non-Japanese guys tend to disagree because they don’t think it’s easy to date Japanese girls. Overall, does it mean that it’s hard to date Japanese people regardless of your gender? If you are in a foreign country with a completely different culture, it is logical that you might have a hard time dating.