Dating 1st base
[Read: Sex buzzkill – 23 remarks that’ll kill the mood for sex] #6 Pitching. This usually means he’s performing anal sex on another man. You’ll hear this term every now and then, so it’s good that you know what it means.
But honestly, this term, though still used, is outdated. If someone identifies themselves as bisexual, then just use that term. Maybe you heard it in movies, “they play for the other team.” If you have, it means this person is either gay or lesbian.
[Read: Dating a bisexual: 12 things you should never say] #11 Ask your friends for help.
If you forget what each base stands for, don’t be shy to ask your friends for help.
There will be some heaving petting above the waist—touching, grabbing, and rubbing breasts, chest, and nipples.
Now, if you need some visual idea of this, think of it when you’re watching a movie on a couch.
If you have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend before, then, of course, the “bases” is just a myth that’s been floating around school. I’m not sure why we use baseball metaphors for sex but we do.
[Read: How to prepare for anal sex: A beginners’ fantasy guidebook] #7 Catching. Instead, this means the man is receiving anal sex from another man. I know, there are a lot of phrases to remember, since switch-hitter basically means the same thing.
It can be a little confusing at first to remember everything for each base.
Also, you can ask your partner, so that way you both are on the same page. Before you two go hitting up bases, make sure you both know that this is what you want.
That is when you’re unsuccessful at engaging in foreplay or sex.
It makes it sound like you failed at something, but you know that just because you didn’t have sex or hit any of the bases, you didn’t fail. Trust me, there have been many times when I could have had sex, but it just didn’t work out. Or I just didn’t have that connection with someone.
Oh god, I’m getting carried away with all the baseball metaphors. But sometimes things happen when we least expect, so you should at least be prepared.