Can enfp dating enfp
The Sensing side for both types is poorly developed.We can work on becoming more comfortable with our inferior functions, but we’ll never use them as effectively as the ones higher on the function stack.This is the co-pilot process for both types, which means it’s the mental process that is second-most developed and that it’s essential for personal growth.FP types generally have their own emotions figured out while FJ types are more in-tune with other people’s feelings.
I’m updating this post with a couple additional points touching on the ways INFJs and ENFPs can experience stress in their relationship.Having similar inferior functions can cause struggles for INFJs and ENFPs (e.g.they might both find that keeping track of practical thing like money is a challenge), but at least you’re not living with someone who finds one of your favorite ways of viewing the world stressful.Then a few years after making this statement, I started actually getting to know one of my ENFP acquaintances.And now we’re dating (doesn’t that sound like just the sort of coincidence that would happen in a romance story? He does have an intense personality but I’ve done enough work overcoming my social anxiety that doesn’t scare me any more (actually, it’s rather exciting).
Once upon a time, I told my sister, “I don’t think I’d ever date an ENFP.” Even though I’d seen lots of people describing ENFP-INFJ as a “perfect” pairing it just didn’t sound like a good fit for me.